• Some of my very best friends are…

     

    There’s a cliché that you sometimes hear when issues of race and other such such topics are brought up:

    “I’m not racist – some of my very best friends are black”.

    “I’m not homophobic. In fact, I’m good mates with a gay guy.”

    This style of defence is often mocked, and I think that though the mocking is often deserved, other times it can be rather unfair. I’ll try to lay out my thoughts. I’ll keep it about race, but it should easily translate to other issues.

     

    1) Merely claiming that one’s best friends are black is not very convincing if one is trying to defend against a charge of racism. It would be easy for any racist to lie about it, or to overstate their relationship. They have much to gain and little to lose by lying, and so such words must be taken with a pinch of salt.

    2) Having black friends does not preclude the possibility of being racist. It’s quite possible for someone to be friendly with black people in their personal interactions, while at the same time believing them to be inferior on account of their racial characteristics, or discriminating against them in some way.

    3) It is perfectly possible that a non-racist defending against charge of racism views their friendship with many people of different races as being a symptom of their non-racism. In this case, bringing up the race of one’s friends is understandable, even if it doesn’t constitute the sort of evidence that will convince their accusers.

    4) The Internet in particular gives rise to various accusations of bigotry, and the accuser often doesn’t know the accused aside from having read a few of their postings. Public figures are usually known by the general public only by their portrayal in the media. The accused might well be using the cliché to express something like “if only you knew me better!”. Again, this is understandable.

    5) The cliché isn’t itself racist – this might seem obvious, but as it is commonly heard uttered by racists, people sometimes confusedly see it as a sign of racism. At its worst, it is merely a poor defence.

     

    Category: Ethics

    Article by: Notung

    I started as a music student, studying at university and music college, and playing trombone for various orchestras. While at music college, I became interested in philosophy, and eventually went on to complete an MA in Philosophy in 2012. An atheist for as long as I could think for myself, a skeptic, and a political lefty, my main philosophical interests include epistemology, ethics, logic and the philosophy of religion. The purpose of Notung (named after the name of the sword in Wagner’s Der Ring des Nibelungen) is to concentrate on these issues, examining them as critically as possible.