I stopped at Mcdonald’s today specifically to get my first Happy Meal in many years, and I am not embarrassed to say so. I wanted to get a Mario Kart racer, which I had heard was the current toy because I enjoy Mario Kart. The meal proved to be less happy than the menu lead me to expect.
The person taking my order asked, “girl’s or boy’s?” with regard to the Happy Meal. I said, er what’s the difference? “Boy’s comes with Mario Kart, girl’s with a Beanie Baby”. I answered that I wanted Mario Kart, without calling it the “boy’s” one. I stopped to check my phone to confirm the year, and make sure I had not been transported to the 50’s to correct a historical wrong Quantum Leap-style; I hadn’t, that was last week.
At the window, I asked the woman who had taken my order, isn’t this a bit sexist? Like girls can’t like Mario Kart? She said, “Yeah. I mean, I like Mario Kart! I’d want the collectible.”
In the case you think it was an employee’s error and not what McDonald’s intended, here are two advertisements for each of the toys.[Edited to add videos]
And for Mario Kart:
This also isn’t a one-off thing. Here’s the preview of the up-coming toys that follow the current set. Take a guess about which is going to be called the “boy’s” meal.
I could understand why a corporation might like to offer two different sorts of toys, if market research had borne out the profitability of doing so. This would be self-interested but not exactly sexist. Psychology and anthropology research does show there are gender differences in toy preferences independent of cultural trappings. But even if that is true, why call choices the “boy’s” and “girl’s” versions? This makes it really hard a boy to ask for the Beanie Baby or doll and perhaps vice versa as well. Why communicate to children the idea that their preference socially brands them?
If there are innate differences between boys and girls (and I think that there are), then there is no need for society to reinforce them. If there aren’t (as many believe), the roles have no purpose and should not even exist. Either way, this is just needless and outdated sexism. I will go back, so I can get Mario (they gave me Donkey Kong), but I won’t be Happy about it.